Early morning at Gaia's Garden became torturous, as the planned daily power outage meant no ceiling fan from 6-9am. When it's almost 100 degrees and 80% humidity, a rotating ceiling fan is like life itself: precious. We set off to explore more of Auroville by bike. We sought out a shortcut that was indicated on the Auroville map and luckily found it through trial and error. It saved us from riding on the local roads which, as mentioned previously, have Indian drivers on them!
We decided to have lunch again at the Solar Kitchen - it was 'Spaghetti N' Some Other Stuff' day. After eating, we headed upstairs to the SK Cafe where we indulged in deliciously refreshing Iceberg Coffee, cold coffee and chocolate with a float of ice cream. Luckily, none of the ants in the tree above made it into our glasses.
We then went on a search for the workshop of Gilles, a French-Aurovillian craftsman who designed these really clean, modern brass vessels. (Auroville is full of artisans and creative people.) I was hoping to find something for myself as well as Saktivel's family, as we were invited for dinner that evening. We couldn't visit the village empty-handed! We ended up bringing a brass vase, candles, fruit, and LEGOs for the kids.
If this were a Bollywood movie, a song would play now, a sweeping melodic landscape with romantic lyrics, the intro to 'Our Village Wedding'. We went to dinner at Saktivel's and were transformed into 'Muragon' and 'Nandini', local villagers getting married. It was so fun! Everyone played along, calling us by our new Tamil names. Saktivel, Lakshmi and Saranya dressed us up in our fancy outfits, me in a lovely sari and Brian in a vesti, a white cloth with gold threads.

Before we got dressed up though, we hung out and chatted while Lakshmi fashioned a garland of jasmine flowers for me to wear in my hair. I tried my hand at weaving the flower buds and cotton string together, but was definitely lacking the skill Lakshmi has!
After lots of photos of us dressed up, we sat down for dinner. We were treated to gobi pakodas (cauliflower coated in a peppy spice mix and fried), which everyone enjoyed. I made sure to ask how to make them! Then, it was the 'bride and groom's' turn to eat. We ate while everyone else watched and told us how to eat our first meal together as 'newlyweds'. First, we fed each other some sweets. Typically at weddings family and close friends bring sweets to the couple and they are expected to take a nibble of each one to say “thank you”. Next, we fed each other rice. This was challenging; YOU try to feed your new spouse loose rice with your hand without getting it all over!
Then it was time for us to hand out the gifts we brought. When we were home in Seattle, I found these small LEGO sets and thought they'd be great fun, easy to pack and uncommon in India. Saktivel's kids loved them! They immediately started putting them together. After we left, we vowed to send more LEGOS to the kids.
We all chatted a bit more but we realized that the family would not eat until we left. Since it was approaching 9pm, we figured we had better head home to Gaia's Garden. After arranging our taxi, we changed back into 'Brian' and 'Lori', leaving behind our fancy wedding clothes, our Tamil names, and our Tamil friends. It was a bittersweet goodbye, knowing that we may never set eyes on each other again.